Saturday, April 7, 2012

H.A.T.E.R.S.!---> "Having Anger Towards Everyone Reaching Success". How to Deal with Haters in YOUR life....
























How are you a model when you look put together like a Mr. potato head of pieces that aren't supposed to go together?"

I received this lovely comment yesterday, stuff like this has become a common occurrence. People from random accounts on Facebook will write me horrible messages or comments, and then delete the account, or use fake accounts to spread hatred, jealously, and bitterness....

In all honesty, I have to admit, I think the above comment is hilarious, and i kind of almost agree :) , but, lemme tell you something kids, that's the secret to dealing with haters... NEVER TAKE ANY OF IT TO SERIOUSLY! or take YOURSELF too seriously for that matter...

When people can't understand why YOU are doing BETTER than them at something, they WILL hate on you. This phenomenon isn't just indicative to the entertainment industry by ANY means; high school, the workplace, even families tend to HATE on each other... My whole thing is, if what I am doing in life is bothering you so bad that you have to sit and spend your time writing about how much it bothers you, then GO OUT THERE AND MAKE SOME "SUCCESS" of your own! Instead of spending time and energy belittling others efforts to succeed in life, try to figure out ways to succeed for yourself! Find a hobby, a skill, a trade, a talent, a business to focus on so you do not have to be BITTER about others around you reaching their dreams!

Jealously manifests itself in many vile and disgusting ways in the human animal, the easiest and quickest form that provides the most instant gratification for people is hateful words or gossip..... but, DO NOT GIVE THEM THE POWER! RISE ABOVE THE HATERS IN YOUR LIFE AND LET THEIR WORDS FUEL YOU TO SUCCEED EVEN MORE! Once you have let the comments or gossip affect your drive, or your mood, THEY HAVE GOTTEN EXACTLY WHAT THEY WANTED, and in a sense, they have won..... 

"Kill'um with kindness" is what my sweet grandmother Nana always said.... People want you to break, and fight back, and get down on their level, BUT DONT GIVE THEM THAT MUCH POWER AND CONTROL OVER YOU! Truly, if people are hating, you MUST be doing at least something right :) .....

Bullies and HATERS will always be around.... not just in middle or high school, but they follow us to the grave my friends, whether it be at the workplace, in social circles, on facebook, or even in your family, trust me..... jealousy and bitterness towards others will never go extinct. The goal and message is rise above it, ignore it, laugh it off, and even FORGIVE those hating on you..not for their sake, but for yours.... the innate and intrinsic goal of a hater is to negatively affect your mood, drive, or feelings about yourself... but don't give them the power my sweet friends..... I love you all so damn much... but..... you already knew that .. :) 

JD, OUT!

PHOTO CREDIT BEVERLY DE JESUS <------ about to publish a splendid interview and selection of work from this little media darling!!!! Shes amazing yall!!!! Find her on facebook, "Beverly De Jesus, Photographer" ! I LOVE HER!

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